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How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke
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I think it makes a difference that I have many exes, rather than one or two. I also don't tend to get serious super quickly. So if we stop seeing each other after 6 months, a year, 18 months, I haven't started living with them, I haven't merged lives with them and I am not sure we will be together forever yet anyway.
To me that is utterly different in terms of becoming friends than someone I was with for five years who cheated on me after we got married.
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