Mentally Delicious
How Do You Identify?: Queer High Femme, thank you very much
Preferred Pronoun?: Mme.
Relationship Status: Married to JD.
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Atlanta
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I think Im getting stuck on the intimacy.
I asked myself how I would feel if the person making this comment was a random stranger on the street.
I'd be pissed.
The fact that it is her partner making this comment makes me feel as if there is intimate knowledge and intimate boundaries between them that I dont have a right to impose upon.
Where is the line? Is there an intersection between fighting for the visibility of masculine women by calling out comments such as these and taking comments such as these as intimate words to and about people who are partnered no matter their gender?
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