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imperfect_cupcake · 01-03-2016, 09:41 PM

Maybe you haven't dealt with what I have. And it *certainly* wasn't the flush of new love.
I've changed quite a bit in the last two years.
I've had friends that last over 25, and 30 years. I've watched them change deeply. That we are still friends are only because I grew up with them.

People change their ethics. A lot. What my ethics were 10 years ago are not the same as they are now after living in a different continent and going through severve poverty, a break down and a divorce.
My life has taught me people change in big fat huge ways, right through their core if life hits them hard enough.
So, I have to disagree.

01-03-2016, 09:41 PM	#52
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,726 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Maybe you haven't dealt with what I have. And it certainly wasn't the flush of new love. I've changed quite a bit in the last two years. I've had friends that last over 25, and 30 years. I've watched them change deeply. That we are still friends are only because I grew up with them. People change their ethics. A lot. What my ethics were 10 years ago are not the same as they are now after living in a different continent and going through severve poverty, a break down and a divorce. My life has taught me people change in big fat huge ways, right through their core if life hits them hard enough. So, I have to disagree.