I'm pretty okay with 'dyke', and often use it in reference to myself. I've never had it flung at me as an epithet with the exception of once in traffic and that was 30 years ago, so it holds no barbs for me.
These days I'm also rather fond of 'lesbo'.
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Now, if I could just find a way to get paid for what I can do with my tongue and a cherry stem.
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