Yes, sorry Medusa for my initial confusion. I wasn't questioning your motives. To me this conversation is a very different topic than the video or other conversation, that was why I was initially confused. But totally get you used it as a jumping off point to start a conversation.
Also seems some confusion on the other site. Stud is not a new term used by a younger generation. It's been around for quite some time.
Anyway, if anyone wants to see Q's video it is very cool. Here is the link to her site:
http://q-roc.tv
The video is at the top of page: Excuse Me Sir: Gender Identity
To me the video is about Studs talking about breaking down gender stereotypes.
EDIT: There is actually more than one video. The one I saw before was part 2 on Stereotypes. Part 3 is at top of page now. Anyway, cool beans more videos for me to watch.