[Bootboi]

Originally Posted by Arwen

I think what it all boils down to for me is this:

I will call you(generic) what you(generic) want to be called. I would request the same courtesy in return.

So I guess I don't much care what anyone thinks of the term butch or the term femme other than as far as respecting my choice to use it. And I promise not to call you(generic) femme if you will give me another choice to use.

I'm with Arwen on this. I really think it's common sense but then as they say common sense isnt so common.