Bottoming for *me* is not about a sexual position. I am not in the leather scene but I don't think one
has to be in order to enjoy sexual power exchanges.
I get that Bottom traditionally is talked about in the leather sense, but I think that it has expanded beyond that.
I mean NO disrespect to anyone for whom Bottoming IS a leather activity. I appreciate all realms of sexuality.
eta: if we want to deconstruct this further please pm me. i don't want to derail this thread.