i am butch,and i try not to default ever...i'll use screenname usually unless feeling very energetic then i will check profile b4 responding....however it gets confusing as i saw posted somewhere(maybe in another thread) how people id one way online and another in real life. i mean i understand the whole sometimes u have to bc of job or family or whatever,but those aside my g/f calls me she in real time she also calls me she online...dunno seems strange to me! if you are comfortable with who you really are shouldnt one pronoun be enough? work,family and HAVE to cases aside of course
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