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waxnrope · 05-20-2010, 07:19 AM

I read some of the threads here, just a few. Wow! We can get really vicious with one another ...
Just need to sit with my feelings about this ... evocative of not so pleasant memories of being attacked, by packs, of heteros. Sometimes, I know, that I/we can be an idiot, a jerk, a whatever. For me, anyway, I'd prefer to be taken aside, had a convo with, given the opportunity to "see" where my thoughts or behavior might need further reflection ... because I am not perfect ... and allowed the opportunity to modify or even completely change my opinion, behavior, whatever. This would not happen if I were attacked in the manner which I have read on some threads here. I would miss my chance to grow and change.
Maybe I need to just keep lighting candles, play music, and be ignorant of other things that go on. Perhaps I may have misinterpreted. I dunno, but I feel a bit sad or disappointed somehow ...

05-20-2010, 07:19 AM	#2582
waxnrope Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 5/27/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: hy ho, hy ho; he, she, it, whatever Relationship Status: Going slow ... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: in her orifices ... la frontera Posts: 1,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,414 Thanked 2,957 Times in 952 Posts Rep Power: 0	I read some of the threads here, just a few. Wow! We can get really vicious with one another ... Just need to sit with my feelings about this ... evocative of not so pleasant memories of being attacked, by packs, of heteros. Sometimes, I know, that I/we can be an idiot, a jerk, a whatever. For me, anyway, I'd prefer to be taken aside, had a convo with, given the opportunity to "see" where my thoughts or behavior might need further reflection ... because I am not perfect ... and allowed the opportunity to modify or even completely change my opinion, behavior, whatever. This would not happen if I were attacked in the manner which I have read on some threads here. I would miss my chance to grow and change. Maybe I need to just keep lighting candles, play music, and be ignorant of other things that go on. Perhaps I may have misinterpreted. I dunno, but I feel a bit sad or disappointed somehow ...