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Originally Posted by Kobi
My Mom is 87. She was well enough to live alone in her own home until a month ago when she fell and hurt her leg.
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Mom is stressed to the max. We are stressed to the max. I wish I knew what to do to make the transition easier for her and for us.
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Originally Posted by dykeumentary
For the last 10 years my life has been spiraling closer to Mom's and to being her caregiver. This summer that's all I did. Last week she broke her hip. So combined with her advanced Parkinson's, the nursing home seems to be the best option.
I'm devastated. Could I do more? Could I have prevented this? Am I letting her down if she goes to a nursing home?
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Kobi and dykeumentary,
It is a tough transition, and one we never want to face. Dykeumentary, imagine this is so hard to watch, and not be able to stop the progression of what will be best for them.
Kobi, Just wanted to let you know, I have seen folks just like your Mom thrive from a safe transition. Even though a loner, she may find that the companionship, safety and once familiar with the folks will bring her a new lease on life.
Take her things she is fond of. Framed Favorite photo's for her wall, and even a bedside lamp, or other items they may permit will help.
Hoping for the best for you and yours.
