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Originally Posted by adorable
Somehow they need to embrace being a woman, even though they don't FEEL that way, otherwise - they lose their queer card.
I <3 meanies.
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I loved your whole post, but this part really got me, because I've known this for a long time, and I've talked about it to other guys who no longer participate on either site, but you're the first person I've seen bring it up in a post. This was especially true on the other site, but I see it happening here too.
And I wonder if this was part of Linus' thought process when he started the "Some Things Don't Need To Start With 'Trans'" thread (that's not the actual title, but I can't remember the actual title).
Guys can't just be 'guys' in this community. They have to be 'trans'guys, or 'FTMs', or (and I hate hate hate this one) 'Trans' (used as a noun as in: The Trans, or A Trans), or some other signifier to denote some sort of 'woman' aspect.
Or there's talk of 'the journey' <gag>
Or there's some comparison to 'bio' men. Or 'natal' men.
And then, we always have to 'honor our past/journey/path' what the hell ever (read: don't ever forget you're a woman)
And now, even holding the door for someone is a 'trans' guy 'thing to do'.
Or caring about One's partner is now a 'dual spirity' thing heralding back to 'womanhood'.
Thank You For Your Whole Post,
Dylan