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Originally Posted by Metropolis
When you do feel dissed does it seem to be coming from an entire group, one particular ID... or is it like the mostly individuals from scattered ID's?
Bull I guess you already answered that.
I guess my main thing is I feel like entire groups are being thrown under the bus for the sins of a few. Instead of addressing the offensive posts, or individuals by quoting and responding to them directly... it's being blamed on the entirety of the ID.
Maybe we could heat things up a lot less if we addressed people instead of entire groups on that.
We are all people here, all different upbringings, cultures and history and my ID doesn't define my heart, soul or beliefs...
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Yes, I agree Metro. I have tried to address things directly with individuals when it was things they said specifically that I found problematic. Unfortunately after awhile that begins to appear as an ongoing personal grudge if certain individuals continue to do that. I do believe in being direct and it also can be hard to let things slide when you find them problematic. I am not sure what the answer is. I'm just going to try disengaging more and just being parts of conversations that interest me.
I do not attack male ids. I do strongly speak out against male defaults. To me there is a huge difference between the two.