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 How Do You Identify?:  Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety 
Preferred Pronoun?:  She, as in 'She's a GEM' 
			
				
			
			
				 
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			Wow.  I'm sexist and misogynistic and am experiencing male privilege (since I think I may be included in the 4 you mentioned...maybe not...you weren't entirely clear about who you were addressing)? 
 
You said yourself, Kobi, that "And no one, even our own community, has the right to negate who we are, define who we are, to tell us we are something other than what we are, or to misconstrue the reality of who we are to make it more convenient for or more in tune to what they need us to be in order to validate themselves." 
 
What do you think you are doing to those lesbians who DO love and sleep with other people outside of your narrow scope that identify as lesbian?  Yes, the definition of lesbian is rather narrow but then homosexuality was deemed a mental illness for eons.  Science has been proven to be slow catching up to reality.  So, scientifically, you are correct.  Morally?  Eh.....you are being hypocritical.  
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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