05-28-2010, 06:58 PM
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this was one of the most erotic photo series I have ever witnessed.
I have loved people of all sizes but I have always been drawn to people of "more" size. One of my lovers was close to 400 lbs and was one of the sexiest butches I ever dated. I also dated an incredibly handsome butch who hated the way he looked because he had gained weight over the years. I didnt know him when he was younger and slim but his body was so flaming hot to me...I looked at photos of him in his younger years and was so glad he wasnt so hard edged in body in his older years. His extra weight gave him substance, not harshness. I have also dated people of a more average weight (which is debatable as to what really is "average" anymore, if it ever was) and as long as they werent thin, or bird like (my description..very thin so as to feel their bones) I was attracted to them. I am not attracted to thin people. I can appreciate them for who they are but sexually, it is not something I find myself drawn to.
I myself am a woman of size. I am comfortable with my body and its weight. I am trying to drop 15 lbs simply because it will help my back feel better. I love how lush my body feels in its plusness. I am very responsive and attribute that to my love of my body image. I feel I am a better lover as a plus size woman who accepts herself. I have had partners who shared how their past lovers would never get fully naked because they were ashamed of their bodies. How sad... I am grateful for this thread and thank you for starting it. I hope somehow it might break down the self shame of someone who has not been able to accept themself.
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Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer
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