05-22-2018, 01:22 AM
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#74
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Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?: Transgender
Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his
Relationship Status: Single
Join Date: Jul 2014
Location: Oklahoma
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Originally Posted by cathexis
Weird one, my Partner is the calm. cool, collected butch who needs not be in someone's face about (except as it pertains to family), She just has this aura . She will walk into a room (really not meaning to), and be the center of attention without even wanted the attention. It's like a Butch (or I think it's her Alpha bubble) and Her aura just walked in. She never makes anyone else feel any lesser. Often comes in and helps with whatever project is being done.
This was just for comparison. I am the one on T and top surgery. She doesn't seem to need the validations of the world, but encourages me to pursue them for me to validate to myself , the fact of butchness.
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I don't see anything wrong with seeking validation at all. I think its awesome that your partner encourages you to be your true self!
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