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I really have not wanted to talk about this here.
I have no way of knowing how it would be received here but it is a very, very, big issue out in the rest of the lesbian world.
There are blogs upon blogs and posts in Tumblr and Twitter and forums, of a large group of transwomen advocating violence against lesbians that chose to not have sex with them, but chose to have sex only with biologically female lesbians.
I have seen and could post here- but won't- of some of the most vicious calls for violence against lesbians, as well as documented celebrations of actual violence against lesbians.
It has become a "thing" in the world outside of BFP.
It upsets me beyond measure.
TERF is a slur. It is a vile slur.
It is once again women being attacked.
You won't find gay men being attacked verbally or physically by transmen if they chose to have sex with only biologically gay men.
No, Only lesbians get this treatment.
What JDeere is referring to is the most recent experience in which a lesbian in a bar made a comment pereceived to be anti-transwomen, so a group of her friends, including the transwoman, beat the shit out of the lesbian outside the bar and then celebrated that they did this online afterward. I read all of their posts.
What the everlasting fuck??!
After all the years that lesbians fought for their right to exist and fuck who they choose, lesbians are being verbally and physically attacked within the queer community?
It feels to many lesbians that there is an attempt to erase us.
BFP has been a safe place for me. I have not had to deal with this here but out in the rest of the real world and the online community it is now happening.
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Democracy Dies in Darkness
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"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner
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