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Originally Posted by Dylan
And after you were pregnant?
Pregnant is a certain stage of the reproduction cycle
It's not the same connotation
And let's not forget that once women are past the age of reproducing/carrying on the human race, they're no longer seen as attractive or useful to the patriarchy (unless they're the caretaking, doting grandmother who once again is dealing with children).
Dylan
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How about if we say parent? mother?
I wasn't bred...I'm not a cow.
I became pregnant. I am a mother. I parent. Any of those is better, at least to me.
I agree that women are judged, in part, by whether or not they have children. We are also judged, in part, by our physical appearance, how much money we make or have, who we partner with. the class we are born into, the car we drive, the clothes we wear and more.
For me, the central problem isn't that women are raised to be mothers or measure their worth by their sexual appeal to others (although I have a problem with both of those things)...it's that we aren't generally raised to treasure our own individuality - no matter what it looks like or where it takes us.