I was actually stunned to see my former loves' righthand man (Rico's best man) today and after we stopped and chatted for a short bit, I noticed how in a year my ex-loves' best man had a whole bunch of silver in his hair that he never had last year. He said losing Rico was real hard on him and that he'd inherited all his work projects,,, which Rico was always super busy. He made it look so easy but his best man and I knew differently. And we both smiled, knowingly, the thing about me commenting on his hair turning silver -- all of a sudden.
It was good to see him and reminisce about my former love. And, smile.
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“The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,”
— Jillian Turecki.
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