I've learned not to have unrealistic expectations when it comes to a lover...don't expect her to be able to be your best friend, and everything else...fight fair & c.o.m.m.u.n.i.c.a.t.e..., negotiate....have fun & do something new to the both of you occasionally...accept that not everyone is monogamous...make peace with it, if this person is perfect in the things that matter most to you...this is my philosophy..no judgement if you disagree!
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"All cruelty springs from weakness"
Seneca
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