to breed and breeder are not the same. to me.
mirriam webster on breeder:
Main Entry:
breed·er
Pronunciation: \ˈbrē-dər\
Function:
noun
Date: 1531
: one that breeds: as
a : an animal or
plant
kept for propagation
b : one engaged in the breeding of a specified organism
c : a nuclear reactor designed to produce more fissionable material than it uses as fuel —called also
breeder reactor
Thank you for understanding that it is hurtful. In turn, duly noted that your progressive friends do not find it hurtful.
Perhaps if I divulged more personal information on how I became pregnant it would help garner more understanding on why being compared to an animal makes me feel like I've been punched in the stomach.
Unfortunately, I'm not ready to do that here.