06-16-2010, 01:04 PM
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How Do You Identify?: Butch
Preferred Pronoun?: Hy
Relationship Status: Married
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Vancouver
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Originally Posted by Nat
I really yearn for rt community and it's very depressing when I have gone too long without it. Thankfully I live near Austin.
I realized recently I would really like a good gay male friend. I actually do have some treasured gay male friends, but they have scattered to the four winds.
I think it would just be really comforting somehow. I guess I am feeling like gay male energy is missing from my life lately.
I did very much enjoy the recent Austin femme tea party - it was quite comforting being around a couple of smartypants positive femme energy - I hope some of it rubbed off on me
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I don’t know anything about smartypant femmes but I really get the gay boy thing, its an energy I miss too. When I first moved I was definitely needing some Butch-bonding (which was something I hadn’t ever really considered before), just a friend that knew where you were coming from- someone that you could nod to, and they knew what that nod meant. I have found that now- and it made all the difference.
In the same light, do you think its important for femmes to have close femme friends?
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