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Originally Posted by Mister Bent
Linus, I doubt you initiated this thread to suggest that non-medically transitioned FTMs have a harder road than any other marginalized group. I'm simply responding with the thoughts that popped into my head as a result of your post, hope you don't mind.
It takes a lot of heart and bravery to do/be many things, including, but not exclusively, "to move forward to present as male."
It takes a lot of fortitude to simply be an out homosexual/queer of any stripe.
It takes a lot of spine to be a masculine presenting female - butch - in a world with narrowly defined parameters of what it means to be female.
It takes a lot of energy to be a male identified butch, or non-medically transitioned FTM and have to endure the tossing under the bus (of male privilege) by other butches.
It takes a lot of strength to be femme in a community that is constantly talking about butch, FTM and other masculine identities, which repeatedly places femme in merely a supporting role, and which questions their inclusion in this community when they choose male id'ed or FTM as partners.
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I'm sorry for interjecting with my femme voice again in a thread that's aimed at FtMs but I have to say this.
Although I agree with everything you've said here, I also
fully understand why Linus has started this thread and see it not as an attempt to negate the suffering of other groups but to lend support to a
particular group. A group that's, after all, as deserving of support and a 'safe space' of their own as any other.
Right?
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