in my years of loving butches and FtMs, I must say I have felt with some of them, their anguish over their bodies, which had layers of discomfort for them for different reasons. Size being one of them. I have come to realize it doesnt matter if one is femme or butch/FtM, we all can be sensitive about size issues. Frankly, I love me a solid fella. No offense to the thinner ones, it is just not my taste. I have loved thinner ones but I am drawn to the larger butches and FtMs...