my 15 year old nephew has a disease which causes polyps in his stomach and intestines that requires surgery every few years to keep him from being in terrible pain. This disease also causes freckle like blotches on his lips. The kids have made fun of him for years. He also has a very low IQ so he doesn't function as many 15 year olds do, more like 8 much of the time.
I am trying to help him build his confidence. He is so afraid of new people speaking to him that he will not go outside and play with the other kids. So I have been working with him a bit every day, getting him to walk a short distance by our pond then back home again. This morning he surprised me with the news that he was ready to walk all the way around this pond, which is nearly a 1/2 mile. I watched as he walked, and cheered him on silently with each step. He made it all the way around the pond and was beaming when he got home! Go Cody!!!!
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