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Originally Posted by violaine
thank you, jen.
this sentence has nothing to do with SB's in general- or is against your family.
there were a few SB's in my family growing up, and i clashed with them big time because i questioned 'hypocrisy' whenever i saw it. without apologies.
hang in-
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I experienced total hypocrisy and thought something was wrong with me that I could not act how they wanted me to, be what they wanted me to be. I even look stressed in my baby pictures.
I questioned constantly from age 3 on and was abused because of it and because my adopted father was crazy....but that's another discussion.
No one knew about AS, even if kids wrote with left hand they were abused back then. Teachers were usually mean, and kids allowed to bully. Plus I was in another country back and forth. A coping mechanism I learned was to apologize whether or not I think I am wrong. I do it when I think I have offended, whether or not what I said was in my opinion offensive. Make sense?
I am really working on the apologizing thing.
xoxoxx