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Originally Posted by Bit
I understand your point here, but the judgment I have endured from other Femmes has centered around "male-centric" rather than "masculine-centric."
It is true that I will defer to any Butch, of any ID. I always check myself and my thoughts before I post to be certain I am not offending anyone, hitting any trigger phrases, pushing any hot buttons, forgetting to hedge myself about with obligatory disclaimers... lord love a duck, it gets tiring and I mostly just don't post, yanno? I mostly just don't post.
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Right now, I just want all the Butches and Transguys of our community to finally grow up and share the space and this includes me.
This sense of needing to jockey for position. The fear of one's identity going out of favor or being overshadowed by another, i.e., loss of power or position within the community. This need to compete, defend; as if 'my' tribe will be assimilated. It's maddening sometimes.
Thank you, to all, for the support you give, to all of us. *smiles and handshakes all around*
Please don't stop posting. *smiles*