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Originally Posted by kassykit
WOnder if people would get pissy if when asked i just say i'm a Mishy (my r/t nickname btw :P )
Guess i kind of just want to find where i fit..........but perhaps i should stop looking for where i fit, and make me a spot! ahh that is easier said then done...   |
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Originally Posted by kassykit
I am deffinately trying to do this!  I like to know other peoples POV's cuz it opens to my mind! new roads and ways of thought!!
If i wanna be a flannelwearing, truckdriving cowgirl femme! then so be it! just because i like fannels doenst make me butch!
correct??
**disclaimer, there is nothing wrong with being butch, i just ain't |
I think you being you is the way to go!
I do ID as Femme, seriously though, the only time it really is useful is when you decide to start dating again. It can make it easier to find someone if you can find a concise way of saying how you see yourself/who you are looking for. (ie Cowgirl Femme Top searching for Butch Sub..or whatever....)
I used to drive a big truck for work some back in my 20's, they called me Big-Rig Jenny. Short hair, no make up, Levis, white T shirt, leather jacket, leatherman and huge wrench in my back pocket.
Still Femme.
