[Arwen]

• Do not use me as your emotional punching bag.
• Do not expect me to make you my be-all/end-all unless you do the same for me (and then we really need to talk because that's a bit much, capiche?)
• Do not drag negativity into every situation. No, the world is not out to get you.
• Do not talk other people down and say things about them you wouldn't have the cajones to say to their face.
• Do not refuse to talk about the important stuff.
• Do not overanalyze the unimportant stuff.
• Be willing to be flexible on what's unimportant and what's important.
• Do not jerk me around and then expect me to be happy when you want to go out again. I'll be busy--promise.

I promise to do the same for you.