I am thinking of how distracted I am at work reading the posts here *lol*
But also - my ex contacted me for the first time in 7 months a few days ago. She kinda broke up with me by falling off the planet - I didn't hear a word until a few days ago.
I'm thinking how I am grateful for her contacting me again and giving me the much needed closure. I am grateful she is happy and I am grateful she did the right thing.
I'm sorry I was an ass to her when she finally did contact me - but at least I wrote her an email apologizing for my assness.
sure I had a reason to be an ass - but being an ass never helps anyone. And after all - even if she took 7 months to come clean with me
better late than never