I have faith that we can have an all inclusive discussion on gender.
I don't think you have/had bad intentions Atlast, and I think people were confused. That's ok. Retitle the thread and let's talk about what you want to.
I say this as a girl that is oft misunderstood, and I come from a place of knowing what that feels like.
So, don't go away frustrated, huh? Stick it out and let's discuss.