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Gemme · 09-04-2010, 10:27 AM

I think I confuse self-indulgence with self-nurturing as well.

I emotionally overeat. Not particularly nurturing in the big picture, obviously, as it feeds other issues other than indulging myself.

But if you take food out of the picture, some of the ways I nurture myself are:

*having 'me' time and being able to articulate that I need personal time and to set healthy boundaries concerning that time

*listening to music (this can be part of my me time but not necessarily)

*enjoying a good (usually naughty) book

*watching a good, funny movie

*working out

*taking a walk in the sunshine

*using super fantastic smelling and feeling soaps, gels and lotions

*sleeping

*being domestic (in small amounts, preferably before I get ticked off at doing so much work)

*shopping (even just window shopping or browsing online)

*girls' nights/days and true friendship in general

*allowing someone to love me and show me that love in their own way, be it friend or lover

09-04-2010, 10:27 AM	#21
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,589 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,220 Thanked 108,765 Times in 25,661 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I think I confuse self-indulgence with self-nurturing as well. I emotionally overeat. Not particularly nurturing in the big picture, obviously, as it feeds other issues other than indulging myself. But if you take food out of the picture, some of the ways I nurture myself are: having 'me' time and being able to articulate that I need personal time and to set healthy boundaries concerning that time listening to music (this can be part of my me time but not necessarily) enjoying a good (usually naughty) book watching a good, funny movie working out taking a walk in the sunshine using super fantastic smelling and feeling soaps, gels and lotions sleeping being domestic (in small amounts, preferably before I get ticked off at doing so much work) shopping (even just window shopping or browsing online) girls' nights/days and true friendship in general allowing someone to love me and show me that love in their own way, be it friend or lover __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.