I think this is an interesting thread.
Maybe part of what it means to be mature is a certain comfort in oneself, a certain amount of self awareness.
I am not the same femme I was when I was 30 years old, and
I can't speak to what it means to be an almost 50-year-old butch who has self defined as a butch for almost 20 years.
And of course butches aren't men or boys, except when they are.
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