Bit, Interesting question, it’s all been said but just wanted to throw in my nod. Growing up - many in my social circle would pass, and yes there was almost always instant recognition- maybe it was something about a personal radar that showed you where allies/kindred spirits might be if support was required. Once the bleep appeared on the screen then perhaps you would look for confirmation- like the size, binding evidence, hands, jaw line- I recall exchanging the “yep” eye contact moments, maybe because passing to another butch was not the point and so perhaps small give-aways between them were intentional.
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