[Miss Scarlett]

Originally Posted by katsarecool

That is weird. Wonder why she would do that? Unless she likes the way you dress and the color of your tops. Is she a wacky person in general?

Can't sleep tonight. Going to the pain doc tomorrow with my daughter driving me. We have some serious things to discuss and I am nervous. Her son recently posted on FB that he is suicidal; he came out to me in Feb. Lots of mommy love and support for her tomorrow. Luckily he is now in counseling and on anti-depressants. He is 16.

No, she's not wacky at all which is why I am puzzled. It certainly cannot be a dress code issue. We have no formal dress code - it's a law office so business attire is the norm. I don't wear provocative clothing at work. In fact this past Monday the cashier at my favourite Chinese restaurant paid me a compliment on my clothes telling me I "always look beautiful."

I'd expect something like this from my previous employer, aka "She Who Knows No Boundaries."

I wish my Mom was alive so I could talk to her about this. My Dad is useless for this stuff and I just don't want to discuss it with my stepmother.

(((((katsarecool))))) Hope your pain has eased this morning and that you got some sleep. Sending you healing and peace - for your daughter and her son as well.