11-17-2010, 09:36 PM
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Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Transguy
Preferred Pronoun?:
He
Relationship Status:
single
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Central West Coast of Florida
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Debbie,
How you personally ID can never be a wrong thing. It is about you and how you see yourself and no one else gets to judge this. 
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Originally Posted by deb0670
This is really helpful to me. I just came out of the closet in Aug of 2009 and in some parts it was so relieving but in others it was hard. When i finally got comfortable with being a femme and being really attracted to Butches, i find my heart going to an FTM.
Now i was raised in a very strict Pentecostal family and have been very ignorant for the lack of a better word.
I feel like a baby alot of the time just learning to live. I am so thankful that i have a wonderful man to help me learn and knows that i love Him and only ask questions out of pure innocence and trying to make His life better.
I asked Him this question, and i have been asked it alot by my gay friends.. i thought you were a lesbian? why are you with a man?
I have said, i am a lesbian still, just cant help where your heart falls.
Is that wrong?
I have so much to learn still and i am thankful to Ethan for being so caring and patient with me.
Guess i have said enough... prolly dont even make sense.
Thanks
Debbie
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