I wasn't going to post here at all until I read your post saying you'll ponder all this great advice others came here to give you. IMHO, I'd of come back and said, hey these people care about whether I smoke or not. They took enough time to answer my cry for help..........so, I'll do it because now I have the support of others right here in my thread.
You know, I'd tell you to stop smoking, but ultimately the choice is yours.
We can all tell you what you want to hear, but you have to want to change your habit.
I was a smoker for 24 years and dated women that never smoked. It wasn't until I quit 16 years ago and was coming out of a bar that I actually smelled the smoke on me. It made me wonder how these non smokers I dated could even kiss me. I never thought that way when I smoked. That day gave me even more of a reason to never smoke again. One might say an epiphany changed my whole view on cigarettes and everything attached to them.
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Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo
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