How do y'all know the difference between someone flirting with you and someone having fun with a friend?
i've had this conversation many times over the past year or so, since being in an online community again.
The consensus is that i flirt, a lot. With a lot of people. But, my reality is that i flirt with 2 people here. 2. Seriously.
Only....i'm not meaning to flirt at all, usually. In my mind, i am having fun joking with people i consider to be e-friends, or responding to a great post that made me laugh (or think). But it is taken as flirting.....
Wonder if i put a disclaimer on each snippet/message/conversation:
"This is rav being friendly. she is not flirting. Really."
Do y'all think that would help??
