[Passionaria]

Originally Posted by Gemme

If you love someone enough to love them...REALLY love them, then you have the power to hate them with the same range and depth and intensity.

(((Gemme))) I know this is true, I have been there as well. It's like the intensity has to go somewhere, like a rubber band being pulled tight then released. SNAP. For me it's all about "how" things are handled. My reality becomes much more flexible if I am treated with some tenderness and care. I have only hated one person that I loved. And it was because they were so incredibly unkind, in how they ended things. Unnecessarily unkind and hurtful. Pain turned my love to hate, I just couldn't understand it. It was a serious reality warp, and unexpected. Now I understand it, and still have a soft spot for them. But if I saw them, I would treat them like a ghost, to protect my heart. Twice, shame on me....

Pashi