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Originally Posted by D-Money
and then some, Mister!  for some reason, for a lot of people, who you are all comes down to who you fuck.
as we know, this is crap. |
I think it goes even further than that. I would say, for a lot of people, who you are all comes down to not only who you fuck, but
how you fuck.
For example, I'm a femme submissive. The assumption being - as far as many are concerned - that I'm some kind of pillow princess unable to adopt anything but a totally passive role in bed. Which of course, is absolute bullshit because
as a submissive, my desire is to please, not to
be pleased, including sexually. So although my Top definitely calls the shots, if you will, in bed, as elsewhere,
if pleasing Hym requires my pretending to be a big, bad leather daddy and fucking Hym senseless until Hy begs for mercy (which it doesn't, but hey, it
could), then
that is what I will do.
Pillow princess? I don't think so.
Not that I have anything against those who
do ID that way but do you see where I'm coming from?
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