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Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL

Good Evening Everyone,

Wanted to come by and say good bye to all of my wonderful friends! I have found someone who really makes me smile.

Please keep in touch and sweet dreams to all of you!

Happy New Year!

Zimmy

But why are you leaving Zimmy? Do you mean you are leaving the singles thread? Or BFP entirely? Better not leave this site!!! OK?

I am single and you know I am perfectly ok with that. I would not mind dating as that can be a lot of fun. But I have trust issues that I cannot seem to work through. Though it is not entirely my bad; met quite a few wimmen that proved to be untrustworthy so I am disallusioned as well.

For example you meet someone, you find that you have a lot in common, have fun, go out on a few dates, start talking on the phone daily then all of a sudden you discover that she has been on the prowl all along with many others and suddenly a new person is her lover and has moved into the apartment. Like wtf? Why did she not have the courage to tell me she was seeing other people and actually was very involved? PEOPLE got to get honest with the ones who have put their trust in you and it is better if they hear the truth fron you than someone else.

So yes I have trust issues; rightfully so. But that does not mean I will not continue to work on me; to work on honing the skills I need to not trust someone right off the back and acquire the ability to see through the BS immediately. My life is precious to me and so is my time so I have to stop letting others waste it for me. So dating someone just for fun is fine with me. Letting it go further will need greater consideration. *sigh*