[Laerkin]

So the other night, SB and I were watching Ask the Experts on Oprah's new network. Dr. Oz was talking about the importance of sex from a health perspective (apparently having sex at least twice per week lengthens a person's life by 3 years). When Dr. Phil took over to discuss HOW to have sex twice a week when you're in a committed relationship, he started talking about how to seduce a woman.

He said, "You don't bring a woman flowers and chocolates and expect her to feel romantic and sexy. You do the dishes. You help out around the house. You take some of the stress out of her day."

SB was yelling at Dr. Phil to shut-up as I smirked and told him to get his ass in the kitchen to do some dishes. HAHAHA.

Joking aside, any act of thoughtfulness will generally win you some favor. For me, it's more important that someone be genuine, thoughtful, kind but with a sense of humor, a bit of a nasty streak, and a little something gritty - if that makes sense.

Judging from the previous responses, you'll be a hit with your flowers and your sweetness. Kobi's offer sounded like a great one. Hehe.

Welcome to the Planet, daymaker.

Originally Posted by daymaker

Hey ladies,

Im not necessarily butch, but u'll never catch me in a skirt. I love all womyn, regardless of labels, and on top of that, its in my nature to be the "sweetheart" type. My question is if this type of person gets overlooked when on ur journey to find your right one? or is it simply undesired/turnoff? can i not wear the butch pants in the relationship and still bring u flowers

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