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					Originally Posted by  Outlaw
					 
				 
				I think "someone or a class of people" get to decide individually and collectively what is complimentary and what is not. 
Speaking only for myself and my butchness... I get to choose individually... if and by whom... I allow my butchness to be objectified by...   
			
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 I understand but my point is who doesn't like to know they are appreciated?