Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Transmasculine/Non-Binary
Preferred Pronoun?: Hy (Pronounced He)
Relationship Status: Married
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: SF Bay Area
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Soft, my sincere condolances to you. Your grief is not "stupid" at all. If you experience loss, don't negate what you are feeling and who you are.
Almost two weeks ago I spent a weekend with pet rats. A mama rat and her babies. This was the first time in my life I have been exposed to rats as pets. I fell in love with the mama rat. She is such a good mom. I literally watched the rats for hours and played with them a bit.
This past weekend my girlfriend and I went and purchased all of the stuff we need to prepare for the adoption of the mama rat and one female baby. I have been a dog person for much of my life and now my heart has opened up to the Rat species. (The kind with four legs.) Best wishes to you.
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Sometimes you don't realize your own strength
until you come face to face with your greatest weakness. - Susan Gale
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