[princessbelle]

Originally Posted by softness

I know! I would throw out the nasty ones with the tight holes...our little girl fingers would push and our mouths would twist up as we tried with all our mights but no, those darn things just would go, now would they? LOL. Thats exactly why I was thinking about them today...how sometimes no matter how hard we try, sometimes you just cant get something to fit where it should....so why DID we try so hard when there were about a hundred other beads that would? Is this an analogy to bad relationships? Maybe...or shoes....

Hmmmmmmmmm Softness you have raised a point here huh. Let's see.....

*trying to go back in time and think what i was thinking about or how it was making me feel....

"it's suppose to fit and if it don't i'll make it, cause that is the way it is suppose to be." for me at least.....making something fit where it doesn't.

Maybe why i lived a straight life for approx 35 years.

However, now? I wouldn't make them fit. I would take the piece that didn't fit into the other and find the one that it did fit with and be happy with that.

......learning what fits where.....good lesson in life.

Who knew so many things about our childhood could cultivate who we were and who we are now.