[undone]

M is the sociopath
C was my wife


Unfortunately I have.
M was a friend of my new girlfriend C at the time M would call all hours of the night and I let it go of course trying to be a respectful guest in C's house.
But over many years in the relationship the things I saw M do things to significant others, family members, and friends were horrific to me, from faking leukemia and tearing her(M's) clothes she was wearing while slamming herself against counters and doors so she(M) could accuse her partner of abuse, to regularly taking pictures of knives bullets or guns in her possession and sending them along with suicide messages or other pictures of her scratched wrists and sending them to my love (at the time we were living in Illinois and the (M) was in Colorado) so all C could do was worry, stress, and shut out every one else around her because she could not help her friend, could not save the M from herself.
The thing about these folks is that they really do narrow in on the weakness and vulnerability of the ones they are working over. C had a very close family member take his life when C was thirteen and had been there when he was found. C always felt like she was responsible because she was so close to him that she should have know. It haunted C through her entire, to such a degree that the only reason she stopped trying to take her own life was when she had her son. So of course the messages and pictures haunted and tormented C to no end, so much so she would tear herself, her life, and her own loving family, apart to try to save the friend.
It got to the point that M had caused so much rift between her father and his wife of over fifteen years because he of course wanted to save his little girl every time something came up, that they were nearly divorced last time I heard anything about it.
M"s partner moved several states away to get distance after being accused of awful things. However M had friends in the same town and the girlfriend was threatened and tormented by several in the community. I reached the end of my patience between C's persistence in placing M as the most important thing in her life, far above myself and the son we were raising, to the payday loans C took behind my back to take care of this or that for M while C and I never knew how or if we were going to make rent that month.
I finally had it after she started lying about me to my partner and the blame and doubt C had of course was on me, and when C asked me to move across the country to live closer to M who caused destruction to any part of my life she could reach and torment to my family C and our son what could I do?
Her disease is like acid to anything she touches, but has everyone convinced she is the Midas touch instead.
I do consider myself lucky that I never felt like I could trust her, never felt like she was sincere or actually cared for my step son or C. That I could never believe a word she said.
I did feel like a monster when my gut and every bone in my body screamed at me that M was lying about having leukemia, I saw the last shreds of my faith and trust in C slip away while watching C go back and forth between us and her friend. M finally came up with some story about how it was not leukemia after nearly a year. No one was ever allowed to go with her, till her father took her to a cancer treatment center and paid for the treatment out of his pocket. She never had side effects from treatments, she would tell different friends different stories and different times or days for Dr. appointments and get medical facts very wrong when talking about it.

C and I let our selves lose so much over the way things worked out,