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Rockinonahigh · 05-01-2011, 08:39 PM

Good Question...To anser this perplexing statement.As I have gotten older I realise that nothing is cut in stone about who I may eventualy be with at some point,once I had a list a mile long wich after a while, I realised most were somethings I didnt like about anyone to date in respect to a long term relationship was bull shit cause nobody could possably measure up to the list.One thing I really needd to do was to fix things I didnt like about myself before I could expect anything form a prospective date.So as I took care of my issues things changed and do change as time goes on,but the core values do not..period! None of us can fit everrything but we can become more intune with ourselves to improve the chanches in meeting our future partner.

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Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Good Question...To anser this perplexing statement.As I have gotten older I realise that nothing is cut in stone about who I may eventualy be with at some point,once I had a list a mile long wich after a while, I realised most were somethings I didnt like about anyone to date in respect to a long term relationship was bull shit cause nobody could possably measure up to the list.One thing I really needd to do was to fix things I didnt like about myself before I could expect anything form a prospective date.So as I took care of my issues things changed and do change as time goes on,but the core values do not..period! None of us can fit everrything but we can become more intune with ourselves to improve the chanches in meeting our future partner.