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girl_dee · 05-02-2011, 06:48 AM

my list has changed quite a bit.

At one time breathing and needy seemed to be what I gravitated to. I had to save people. After many years of ups and downs I put a list out to the Universe, with the advice to stop settling. And I did. I have met people who have made the list, but what I didn't include was a dealbreaker addendum. There are certain things I can't live with, no matter how hard I try, or how much I love them. Being alone is MUCH better than living with the hard limits being ignored.

I made a new and improved list and viola, here I am! I am with the ones who told me to stop settling years ago! (Thank you Syr and aurora!)

It is true, if you want different results, do things differently. Life is too short not to be happy

05-02-2011, 06:48 AM	#19
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	my list has changed quite a bit. At one time breathing and needy seemed to be what I gravitated to. I had to save people. After many years of ups and downs I put a list out to the Universe, with the advice to stop settling. And I did. I have met people who have made the list, but what I didn't include was a dealbreaker addendum. There are certain things I can't live with, no matter how hard I try, or how much I love them. Being alone is MUCH better than living with the hard limits being ignored. I made a new and improved list and viola, here I am! I am with the ones who told me to stop settling years ago! (Thank you Syr and aurora!) It is true, if you want different results, do things differently. Life is too short not to be happy