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violaine · 05-08-2011, 01:05 PM

beginning conversations about birds, bugs, or . . . .

THINGS BULLIES SAY ABOUT ASPIES

Rude

Rude

Aspies aren't being rude when we don't get what you are trying to say between the lines; we just don't read non-verbal communication very well

Insensitive

Insensitive

Aspies have a very hard time trying to pick up on the needs of others or to see things from someone else's perspective

Domineering

Domineering

I suppose it can seem that way when someone is pedantic by nature and not picking up on subtle social signals; but the intent is not to be domineering

Pedantic

Pedantic

Yes, guilty, Aspies are pedantic; our brains are hard-wired that way, that's why we make such good scientists and IT's

Inconsiderate

Inconsiderate

Aspies have a very hard time trying to pick up on the needs of others or to see things from someone else's perspective unless it is spoken

Talks too loud

Talks too loud or too soft, or with a monotonous voice

It is common for Aspies to have odd prosody of speech, typically too loud or too soft

Talks too much / won't let anyone else get a word in

Can't shut them up

Aspies typically lack the receptors for non-verbal social signals

Ignores body language

Shocking at non-verbal communication

Aspies typically lack the receptors for non-verbal social signals

Says and does inappropriate things

Says and does inappropriate things

Aspies have difficulty in judging the appropriateness of different behaviours in different social situations

Won't consider someone else's opinion

Selfish, narrow minded

An unfortunate symptom of Asperger's is that we do not react well to change; this makes it hard to instinctively "get" others' opinions without being spelled out

Only wants to talk about jellyfish i just posted on jellyfish. haha

Only wants to talk about their special interest

One of the key features of Asperger's and other Autism disorders is for sufferers to have an obsessional special interest

Anti-social

Anti-social

Aspies are reknowned for being uncomfortable in social situations, preferring reading, writing, computing, or other 'anti-social' activities

Off in my own world

Head in the Clouds

Yes, I suppose Aspies are that way

and some kind of case here:

http://launcestoncityscandal.com/discrimination.html

i have not read through the entire thing. i'm thinking in the work space i've not [that i'm aware of] experienced too much bullying. maybe a couple instances of 'sabotage.' once, while teaching at the humane society, there was someone who wanted my job but refused to assist me whenever invited, or make an effort to learn the ropes on her own. she hid some of my paperwork, destroyed some things, and refused to let people know about what i was there to do, i found out later. my time spent at the HS in those days, was for the shelter animals. was that a form of bullying?

the positions that i've held doing my own thing, seem to be the ideal situation for me. like right now, i do see people, of course, and must have interaction; it's just not upsetting The Job iam/we are there to perform, nor am i having to stress over sensory issues.

05-08-2011, 01:05 PM	#3
violaine Timed Out How Do You Identify?: atypical Preferred Pronoun?: plague words and phrases Relationship Status: love wise guys of the avian world Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wekiva springs basin Posts: 3,236 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,934 Thanked 3,293 Times in 1,301 Posts Rep Power: 0	on narrow focus of interests, i found - beginning conversations about birds, bugs, or . . . . THINGS BULLIES SAY ABOUT ASPIES Rude Rude Aspies aren't being rude when we don't get what you are trying to say between the lines; we just don't read non-verbal communication very well Insensitive Insensitive Aspies have a very hard time trying to pick up on the needs of others or to see things from someone else's perspective Domineering Domineering I suppose it can seem that way when someone is pedantic by nature and not picking up on subtle social signals; but the intent is not to be domineering Pedantic Pedantic Yes, guilty, Aspies are pedantic; our brains are hard-wired that way, that's why we make such good scientists and IT's Inconsiderate Inconsiderate Aspies have a very hard time trying to pick up on the needs of others or to see things from someone else's perspective unless it is spoken Talks too loud Talks too loud or too soft, or with a monotonous voice It is common for Aspies to have odd prosody of speech, typically too loud or too soft Talks too much / won't let anyone else get a word in Can't shut them up Aspies typically lack the receptors for non-verbal social signals Ignores body language Shocking at non-verbal communication Aspies typically lack the receptors for non-verbal social signals Says and does inappropriate things Says and does inappropriate things Aspies have difficulty in judging the appropriateness of different behaviours in different social situations Won't consider someone else's opinion Selfish, narrow minded An unfortunate symptom of Asperger's is that we do not react well to change; this makes it hard to instinctively "get" others' opinions without being spelled out Only wants to talk about jellyfish i just posted on jellyfish. haha Only wants to talk about their special interest One of the key features of Asperger's and other Autism disorders is for sufferers to have an obsessional special interest Anti-social Anti-social Aspies are reknowned for being uncomfortable in social situations, preferring reading, writing, computing, or other 'anti-social' activities Off in my own world Head in the Clouds Yes, I suppose Aspies are that way and some kind of case here: http://launcestoncityscandal.com/discrimination.html i have not read through the entire thing. i'm thinking in the work space i've not [that i'm aware of] experienced too much bullying. maybe a couple instances of 'sabotage.' once, while teaching at the humane society, there was someone who wanted my job but refused to assist me whenever invited, or make an effort to learn the ropes on her own. she hid some of my paperwork, destroyed some things, and refused to let people know about what i was there to do, i found out later. my time spent at the HS in those days, was for the shelter animals. was that a form of bullying? the positions that i've held doing my own thing, seem to be the ideal situation for me. like right now, i do see people, of course, and must have interaction; it's just not upsetting The Job iam/we are there to perform, nor am i having to stress over sensory issues.