Talked with a friend about financial stuff - finally decided I need to put myself on a better budget and created a savings account - so now I have a 'bills' account, a 'wedding budget' account (both with set amounts going in them), and a 'spending' account for misc stuff. Now debating if I should contribute money to the 401k I had to roll over from my last job, or let it be as I have an employer-matched 401k at my current job (I put in 3% - it's the most I can put in that they'll match 100%).
Receiving well wishes
Feeling at peace.