[clay]

Originally Posted by ruthie14

Well looks like that butch was just after a friends with benefits or a "practice gf" if you know what I mean. I am really attracted to her, and now unfortunately, she is part of my group of friends. She is attracted to me too, but she has no room for a gf in her life and I am too old to waste my time on someone who only wants sex and to "play house".

I am finding, that at 49, most women have had the relationship thing and are now just looking for someone to have sex with, have a night out with, and not have a real relationship with. I came out way too late.

(((((((((Ruthie)))))))))
I am a little past 49 BUT I am definitely wanting to find my special someone and settle down. I do NOT believe in FWB's OR One night stands! I regard my own integrity much more highly than that!
I am also an OFOS butch...I don't know all these new "designer labels" and such...and I believe in having privacy betweeen the two of us as to what does and doesn't work in the bedroom AND other aspects of a relationship. It saddens me that we so blatantly put such intimacies out in public venues. What ever happened to "discretion" and privacy? I am not judging anyone but for myself that is something sacred to me and to her...and NO ONE else! Maybe I came out before my time...or perhaps it is I who am behind the times...but one thing is for certain...I will NOT change my beliefs and moral compass! I am simply a woman who loves a woman...and I am very proud of my old fashioned beliefs and morals! I love each and everyone of you, and respect your personal beliefs.....so please do mine!
Ruthie...come to Fla. Let me show you what an OFOS southern gentlewomyn is and how to treat a LADY! True old fashioned friendship, courtship, and dating!!! Hugs...Clay